It has piqued my curiosity for awhile as to why some men find Sex Workers so enticing, so I conducted some research around various social media platforms and put together a very insightful summary. Here is what I found: The most common reason why men said they bought sex was to satisfy immediate sexual urges. “The feeling of being needed and wanted badly by a horny woman. It is my ultimate fantasy after all.” “They are regular everyday men who just want some fun, and they want to know that you are having fun too.” "To get some relief." Men wanted to select women with certain physical, racial and sexual stereotypes, such as being submissive or dominant. They were unsatisfied with their current relationship. Their sex life with their current partner is weak and infrequent. They want someone to talk to and connect with, as they feel their connection in their current relationship is lacking. With a Sex Worker there is no emotional connection, commitment or baggage. “Sex Workers by definition are discreet and private, they are very good at keeping secrets. Clients pay for our services because they know we can be trusted with their secrets. Secrets that include not only the fact that they visit us, but the details of what they like to experiment with in private, with someone who is being paid to allow and encourage that experimentation. You’re paying for a service, but you’re also paying for the assurance that no one will find out that you’re using that service. Having said that, you’d also probably be surprised by how many men visit escorts with their partner’s approval.” / Anonymous Sex Worker “All of the fun, without the long-term commitment.” They have very specific kinks that they are afraid or unwilling to share with their partner, so they instead perform them with a Sex Worker, to avoid shame and embarrassment. They are sex addicts, and trying to find partners who will have sex with them as often as they require is basically impossible. “My pornography use sparked curiosity.” “Because they are looking to fill a void that they are not getting at home. In my case it's blowjobs." “Sometimes you just want sex stripped down to its purest, with none of the preliminaries and none of the denouement.” “Because they want sex with no strings attached and no relationship." “You would be surprised as to how many men have a prostitute/ Sex Worker/ escort fetish.” / Former Escort At Sex Workers “I had few partners and many loving experiences.” / A Pansexual Client “I just like living alone.” Some men are afraid of rejection. “Because strippers and Sex Workers are people. Some are incredibly intelligent, fascinating, fun, funny, wonderful people. Why wouldn't someone want to date someone like that?” “For one thing they're sexually provocative and primal. They are skilled at making men feel good. Lots of prostitutes and strippers are very intelligent and easy to talk to. Some men are nervous around regular women, so they go to prostitutes that make them feel comfortable and loved.” “Because I know that strippers and prostitutes are skilled in seduction and sex, and if it’s legal sex work, they are probably much safer than your regular one night stand.” “They know what men want and how to treat them. The highest paid professional ladies aren't necessarily the prettiest or hottest. It is because they are willing to DO the things men like.” Some men can't get laid or are socially awkward. “I think the attraction of strippers and prostitutes is that they are confident in their sexuality and willing to ignore society's largely negative views about sex.” FAMOUS QUOTE: “I wasn't paying the ladies for the sex. I was paying the ladies to leave when the sex was over, and also keep quiet about it." / Actor Charlie Sheen