PART 1 *** ”NOTHING MAKES YOUR COCK HARDER THAN THE THOUGHT OF ME DRAINING YOUR WALLET. I will have you on your knees, kissing my perfect feet and BEGGING TO SEND.” / Mistress Bubbles *** “Here piggy piggy...” Come with me as we take a trip into the fascinating BDSM world and fetish lifestyle of SUPERIOR, SEXY FINDOMMES and their FINSUBS. The attraction of financial domination (aka findom or WALLET RAPE) continues to captivate many, and is a widespread trend across the globe. Beautiful women are sent money and lavished with expensive gifts by men who seemingly want next-to-nothing in return - it’s all about submitting to the dominant woman and relinquishing control. Money Dommes present themselves on their websites or social networks. It is mostly done online via phone and webcam. Participants in financial domination can be of any gender, but in practice the dominant person is more likely a woman, and the submissive is almost always a man. Some financial domination (or Findomme) relationships consist of a one-time payment, others are regimented regular transferrals of money, and some men even hand over passwords and total control of their bank accounts to a Findomme, asking her to devise a minimal budget too. In the majority of cases the two never meet, since findom is primarily a form of 'distance domination.' In rare exceptions, the submissive may accompany the dominant while the dominant shops with the submissive's money. After a sub has shown interest by paying a tribute to his Findomme, she would then interview him live on webcam before deciding to take him on, and see what he would want from the relationship, and if she is the Findomme for him. Some pay pigs like to be taken from but not given the time of day, preferring to be used and ignored by their Findomme, while others may want to be forced to do things that will humiliate them. They may even want a complex relationship where their life gets ruled by their Financial Dominatrix, and everything they do is controlled by their Financial Goddess. The life of a findom slave is devoted to making sure his Mistress is well taken care of and desires nothing. Gifts are offered by slaves to please their Mistress while fulfilling their responsibility as a slave. A Mistress will usually provide a list of items she desires (Wish List), offering her slaves the possibility to earn her attention. FINDOM TERMINOLOGY: Words such as Queen of Wallets, Mistress, Goddess, Money Domme, Money Master, Money Mistress or Cashmaster and Superior are often used to describe these mesmerizing, powerful sought after elite queens. However, the men who serve them (Fin Subs) are degraded and referred to as nothing more than a pay pig/ pay piggy, piglet, human ATM, little ATM, pathetic dicklets, and money slaves, to name a few. WHAT IS THE ATTRACTION FOR THE MEN?: We asked a self-proclaimed submissive to explain. “The arousal factor comes from the thought of the Findomme invading the personal space that is your finances. People measure their self worth with their money,” ‘Steve’ advises. He believes that most submissives get into findom due to low self-esteem, and they have an "inability to deal with rejection, humiliation, loneliness, fear of being unwanted and redundant in today’s rapid-paced society.” According to Steve, when a submissive is discussing the transfer of money with his Findomme, he "ENTERS ‘THE ZONE,’ which is where he is FREE FROM ALL HIS WOES AND WORRIES,” and BECOMES AROUSED. “Ultimately, a submissive hands over his money to a Findomme because he wants to use her as a tool to access some emotions that provide him with a chemical high that only comes from feeding his addiction to self destructive behaviour,” he explains. “But as soon as that’s over he COMES CRASHING BACK DOWN TO EARTH with a HOLE IN HIS WALLET and a HEAD FULL OF REGRET,” Steve says. There is a stark difference between a financial dominatrix and a mean girl demanding money. “The former is in fact much much rarer, despite many declaring that they are one.” Fin Subs feel unworthy, so are dedicated and GRATEFUL TO BE OF SERVICE TO and pay respect to their Findomme. They crave praise for being a good Fin Sub. Some Fin subs love to be DEGRADED and HUMILIATED as well. Some findom slaves may enjoy sudden and unexpected demands on their finances, which may not always be convenient for them, while others like to have a strong woman in control of their finances, especially if they are normally frugal with how they spend their money. Imagine BEGGING TO BE ALLOWED TO SPEND YOUR OWN MONEY ON YOURSELF! The reality is that handing money over to a woman you barely know is A RISK, and taking risks is A BIG EROTIC THRILL! In financial domination, the submissive has NO EXPECTATION OF SEXUAL CONTACT in return for the money, and often there is no physical contact of any kind between the two parties. BENEFITS TO THE FINDOMME: A Findomme gets dedication, trust, praise and respect from her Fin Sub. The Pay Pig shows his respect for his Findomme by PAYING TRIBUTE TO HER OR SENDING. ***TO BE CONTINUED... SEE PART 2