QUOTE: “We’re all dressing up. We’re all pretending to be someone else everyday, whoever you are.” “Fun is something I invest in like obsessively.” “More sass, more joy, more laughter, more love.” ~ Boy George, Singer, Songwriter, Actor, DJ *********************************************************************************************************** WHAT IS A SISSY/ FEMBOY?: Unless you’ve been living under a rock, the term ‘SISSY BOY’ has become more and more popular in the last little while. But just what is a 'Sissy Boy’ exactly? Sissification is ROLE REVERSAL play kink for male-identified people, which may or may not involve HUMILIATION and SEXUAL DEGRADATION from a DOM or DOMME. To be a Sissy means to embrace a submissive role with a feminine demeanor as an alternative to traditional masculine behavior. Usually a Sissy Boy or Femboy needs a Dom/ Domme to help play out feminization. A Dom could come in the form of a male [DADDY Feminizer (could be a Big Black Cock or not) or Mistress], depending on the Sissy Boy’s preference. Sissification doesn’t necessarily imply an alteration of one’s sexual identity. It is a kink or sexual preference that involves the subject adopting exaggerated feminine behaviors and attire. Some Sissies are not so much into humiliation, but rather might enjoy SERVING their Dom or Mistress by doing household chores, going out shopping with their Dom/ Mistress, or having their Master trade them. HOW SISSIFICATION IS DIFFERENT FROM CROSS-DRESSING: Cross-dressing is usually carried out just for the comfort, tactility and relaxation it brings, and one usually doesn’t need a Dom/ Domme to get enjoyment from it. “I have cross-dressed, which allows me to EXPRESS AND FEEL IN TUNE WITH MY FEMININE SELF, which felt really EMPOWERING.” /Anonymous. WHY MEN ENJOY SISSIFICATION: For some individuals, being a Sissy brings a sense of excitement, arousal and fulfillment. It allows them to explore alternative gender identities and indulge in their fantasies of submission and femininity. The prospect that one is forced by a Dom/ Domme to dress up often eliminates the shame and hesitation and feelings of being alone that many Sissy Boys feel. A Dom/ Domme can help open them up to this kinky world. I enjoy being a Sissy Boy because of "Mistress respect and affirmation of my identity, and She doesn’t use typical slurs.” - @ jasminecats1370. “I grew up in a non-affirming environment, and that (sissification) was a way to externalize my shame. I guess I still carry some of that shame.” - @oliviawolcott8351. For most men that enjoy Sissy Play, it is a means of neutral and EMOTIONAL ESCAPE. Highly dominant men can be into this play because it allows them to find their SWITCH SIDE, and relax and rest, not as a man but as a Sissy, because they feel so trapped in that masculine energy as a man. Thus, it’s not about humiliation at it’s core, it’s about RELEASE. SISSY TRAINING: Engaging in sissification / feminization role play should always be based on informed CONSENT and OPEN COMMUNICATION. It is important to communicate to your Dom/ Domme what your DESIRES and BOUNDARIES are as you discover them, as it will alleviate unpleasant occurrences during Play Time. Be patient and loving to yourself as you allow your feminine personality to develop over time, as your Dom/ Domme leads you through this endless learning process. Sissy Play could also entail a CHASTITY CAGE, anal, oral, or learning to SERVICE OTHER FRIENDS and sexual guests. It could also consist of performing tasks such as cooking, cleaning, or wearing lingerie. Choosing a feminine name for your Sissy self will help your Sissy self to tap into this new experience and energy, taking this level of play deep beyond the superficial, as well as keep you locked into your respective roles. Your Dom/ Domme may train you in cleaning used sexual toys, or even how to clean them up after they have engaged with other sexual partners while you were forced to watch. Be open to how your Dom/ Domme wishes to play. Your Dom/ Domme can help you with beauty facials, learning to walk in heels, picking the most flattering outfits, applying make-up, or finding the best hairstyle or wig. *** TO BE CONTINUED... SEE PART 2